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People Pleasing

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People PleasingPeople Pleaser knnen oft nicht aus ihrer Haut. Sie sagen Ja, auch wenn sie eigentlich Nein meinen. Sie fhlen sich fr das Wohlergehen anderer verantwortlich und spren erst viel zu spt, dass sie sich selbst dabei vllig vergessen haben. Oft passen sie sich lieber an, als bei anderen anzuecken. Betroffene sind meist sehr feinfhlige und empathische Menschen, die Gefahr laufen, auszubrennen, wenn sie ihre eigenen Bedrfnisse und Wnsche bergehen. Die

People Pleaser können oft nicht aus ihrer Haut. Sie sagen Ja, auch wenn sie eigentlich Nein meinen. Sie fühlen sich für das Wohlergehen anderer verantwortlich und spüren erst viel zu spät, dass sie sich selbst dabei völlig vergessen haben. Oft passen sie sich lieber an, als bei anderen anzuecken. Betroffene sind meist sehr feinfühlige und empathische Menschen, die Gefahr laufen, auszubrennen, wenn sie ihre eigenen Bedürfnisse und Wünsche übergehen. Die Psychologin Ulrike Bossmann beschreibt anhand neuester Forschungserkenntnisse und Fallbeispiele die Auslöser und Auswirkungen von People Pleasing und zeigt, wie man ohne schlechtes Gewissen Grenzen zieht und Konflikte austrägt, statt um der Harmonie willen zu schweigen. Zahlreiche Reflexionen und Übungen unterstützen dabei, mit sich selbst ebenso fürsorglich umzugehen wie mit anderen.

EAN: 9783407867810
Farbverschnitt: Generell werden die Bücher ohne Farbverschnitt geliefert, auch wenn die Abbildungen einen Farbverschnitt zeigen.
Auflage: 2. Auflage, 23002
Erscheinungsjahr: 13.09.2023
Produktform: Kartoniert, Klappenbroschur
Autoren: Bossmann, Ulrike
Auflage/Ausgabe: 2. Auflage
Seitenzahl/Blattzahl: 270
Abbildungen: 10 Schwarz-Weiß- Zeichnungen
Keyword: Altruismus; Dauerstress; Dilemma; Egoismus; Energie tanken; Frust; Grenzen setzen; Harmoniesucht; Helfersyndrom; Ich muss gar nichts; Konfliktbewältigung; Konfliktscheu; Nein sagen; People Pleaser; Schuldgefühle; Selbstaufopferung; Selbstbestimmtheit; Selbstfürsorge; Selbstrespekt; Selbstverantwortung; Selbstvertrauen; Solidarität; Souveränität; Wertschätzung; Zwickmühle; allen gefallen; everybody's darling; für andere da sein; für sich einstehen; gesunder Umgang; helper's high; innere Wahlfreiheit; refektierte Entscheidungen treffen; schlechtes Gewissen; selbstbestimmt; sich selbst ernst nehmen; toxische Beziehungen
Fachschema: Hilfe / Lebenshilfe~Lebenshilfe
Fachkategorie: Persönlichkeitsmerkmale~Soft Skills und Umgang mit anderen Menschen, Durchsetzungsvermögen, Motivation und Selbstwertgefühl
Thema: Optimieren, Orientieren
Text Sprache: ger
Verlag: Julius Beltz GmbH, Julius Beltz GmbH & Co. KG
Länge: 214 mm
Breite: 135 mm
Höhe: 20 mm
Gewicht: 390 gr
Genre: Sachbuch/Ratgeber
Herkunftsland: DEUTSCHLAND (DE)
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