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拯救未來的我：減少後悔、提升行動力的自我調節心理學 (韓國知名諮商心理師 邊池盈): : 8 yes 24PD YES 249. 8 8 8 CHA
作者: 邊池盈 | 譯者: 馮燕珠
◎為努力生活卻遺憾滿滿、有很多想法卻無法實踐的人而寫！改變人生設計的8大心理工具，讓今天的決心變成明天的現實！
◎越努力做出好選擇，越容易後悔？難以替將來打算，是因為大腦認為未來是別人的事？無法養成習慣，不是意志力薄弱，而是設計不良？……許多意想不到的事實，顛覆讀者認知！
◎「自我調節，就是對『未來我』的同理心。」──艾德．楊（科普作家，《五感之外的世界》作者）
◎「你對現在和過去的解釋，會隨著對未來的看法而改變……是時候停止責備自己，並開始明智地使用自己的大腦了。」──孫愍奎（yes 24人文學科PD）
◎洪仲清（臨床心理師）、盧美妏（人生設計心理諮商所共同創辦人，諮商心理師）、鐘穎（心理學作家，「愛智者書窩」版主）、尼克小姐（精神科職能治療師）──和你一起拯救未來
韓國網路書店「YES 24」讀者9.8分超高評價
讀者好評：「如果你覺得自己有點廢，推薦你讀這本書！」
想讓未來站在自己這邊，就得先站在未來那邊！
人很難總是深謀遠慮，只做從長遠來看有利的事，
但如果能把未來當成人生的指南針，
現在所做的事，就能成為拯救未來的契機；
未來的自己，也能成為推動現在的力量！
◆為什麼越努力做出好決定，越容易感到後悔？
◆為什麼新年新希望往往只有三分鐘熱度？
◆明知道拖延沒好處，為什麼還是等到最後一分鐘才做？
◆很想養成好習慣，卻老是半途而廢，難道不是意志力太薄弱了，而是設計不良？
◆大家都說要替未來打算，但以後的事誰知道，太早準備不是很虧嗎？
許多人儘管努力地面對每一天，卻也不斷活在後悔中。該怎麼改善這種情況？有沒有什麼方法能更準確地預測未來，做出更好的決策？
本書以心理學與神經科學的研究為基礎，提出8項實用的心理工具，幫助我們學習更具體的自我調節技巧，好與「未來的自己」更親密。不論是背負著沉重過去，或是覺得未來一片模糊的人，都能藉此減少後悔、提升行動力；不但能拯救未來的自己，還能讓現在的你活得更自由。
如果你努力生活卻遺憾滿滿、有很多想法卻無法實踐，這本書能釋放現在的你，拯救未來的自己！
◆ 8項心理工具，讓你成為自己的神隊友！
未來的自己：與未來的自己越親近，做出的選擇越好
心理對照：了解如何分區幻想和目標，並使自己的願望成真
認知控制：大腦只有在認為「值得」的時候，才會付出努力
習慣設計：打造毋須任何努力即可自動運作的系統
解釋水準：依照需要選擇使用「具體」或「抽象」的力量
自我效能：利用「我能做好」的信念，將意圖轉化為計畫並付諸執行
心態設定：只要能找到前進與發展的可能，失敗和錯誤也能化為動力
優先事項：確認人生每一次行動的方向與標準
◎越努力做出好選擇，越容易後悔？難以替將來打算，是因為大腦認為未來是別人的事？無法養成習慣，不是意志力薄弱，而是設計不良？……許多意想不到的事實，顛覆讀者認知！
◎「自我調節，就是對『未來我』的同理心。」──艾德．楊（科普作家，《五感之外的世界》作者）
◎「你對現在和過去的解釋，會隨著對未來的看法而改變……是時候停止責備自己，並開始明智地使用自己的大腦了。」──孫愍奎（yes 24人文學科PD）
◎洪仲清（臨床心理師）、盧美妏（人生設計心理諮商所共同創辦人，諮商心理師）、鐘穎（心理學作家，「愛智者書窩」版主）、尼克小姐（精神科職能治療師）──和你一起拯救未來
韓國網路書店「YES 24」讀者9.8分超高評價
讀者好評：「如果你覺得自己有點廢，推薦你讀這本書！」
想讓未來站在自己這邊，就得先站在未來那邊！
人很難總是深謀遠慮，只做從長遠來看有利的事，
但如果能把未來當成人生的指南針，
現在所做的事，就能成為拯救未來的契機；
未來的自己，也能成為推動現在的力量！
◆為什麼越努力做出好決定，越容易感到後悔？
◆為什麼新年新希望往往只有三分鐘熱度？
◆明知道拖延沒好處，為什麼還是等到最後一分鐘才做？
◆很想養成好習慣，卻老是半途而廢，難道不是意志力太薄弱了，而是設計不良？
◆大家都說要替未來打算，但以後的事誰知道，太早準備不是很虧嗎？
許多人儘管努力地面對每一天，卻也不斷活在後悔中。該怎麼改善這種情況？有沒有什麼方法能更準確地預測未來，做出更好的決策？
本書以心理學與神經科學的研究為基礎，提出8項實用的心理工具，幫助我們學習更具體的自我調節技巧，好與「未來的自己」更親密。不論是背負著沉重過去，或是覺得未來一片模糊的人，都能藉此減少後悔、提升行動力；不但能拯救未來的自己，還能讓現在的你活得更自由。
如果你努力生活卻遺憾滿滿、有很多想法卻無法實踐，這本書能釋放現在的你，拯救未來的自己！
◆ 8項心理工具，讓你成為自己的神隊友！
未來的自己：與未來的自己越親近，做出的選擇越好
心理對照：了解如何分區幻想和目標，並使自己的願望成真
認知控制：大腦只有在認為「值得」的時候，才會付出努力
習慣設計：打造毋須任何努力即可自動運作的系統
解釋水準：依照需要選擇使用「具體」或「抽象」的力量
自我效能：利用「我能做好」的信念，將意圖轉化為計畫並付諸執行
心態設定：只要能找到前進與發展的可能，失敗和錯誤也能化為動力
優先事項：確認人生每一次行動的方向與標準
作者
邊池盈（변지영）
韓國知名諮商心理師。龍文諮商心理研究所諮商心理學碩士、CHA醫科大學臨床諮商心理學博士，專業領域包含家庭諮商、自我同理、夫妻關係品質，以及調節定向理論、認知彈性對身心健康的影響等。
著有《閱讀內心的時間》《閱讀情緒的時間》《給總是為自己設下路障的你》《給不知何去何從的你》《給尚未遇見自己的你》等書，譯有《說自己死亡的男人》（該書為從自我觀點檢視思覺失調症、自閉症類群障礙、阿茲海默症等精神病理的神經學教科書）。在臺翻譯出版的著作則有《比起喜歡自己，我有更多討厭自己的日子》。
譯者
馮燕珠
新聞系畢業，曾任記者、公關、企畫，後辭去工作隻身赴韓進修，回國後踏入翻譯界，現為專職譯者。近期譯作：《憤怒日記》《媽媽的說話練習》《我是遺物整理師》等。
韓國知名諮商心理師。龍文諮商心理研究所諮商心理學碩士、CHA醫科大學臨床諮商心理學博士，專業領域包含家庭諮商、自我同理、夫妻關係品質，以及調節定向理論、認知彈性對身心健康的影響等。
著有《閱讀內心的時間》《閱讀情緒的時間》《給總是為自己設下路障的你》《給不知何去何從的你》《給尚未遇見自己的你》等書，譯有《說自己死亡的男人》（該書為從自我觀點檢視思覺失調症、自閉症類群障礙、阿茲海默症等精神病理的神經學教科書）。在臺翻譯出版的著作則有《比起喜歡自己，我有更多討厭自己的日子》。
譯者
馮燕珠
新聞系畢業，曾任記者、公關、企畫，後辭去工作隻身赴韓進修，回國後踏入翻譯界，現為專職譯者。近期譯作：《憤怒日記》《媽媽的說話練習》《我是遺物整理師》等。
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★★★★★ 5
Very detailed! Beautiful world building! Strong Heroine!
Format: Kindle
Starts off a little slow and confusing with different POV’s, but starts to all come together towards the middle to make an elaborate plot line and makes it all worth it. Beautiful world building and attention to detail as well as great writing. The cliffhanger was gut wrenching! Can’t wait for the next book!
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Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2020
★★★★★ 4
Interesting
Format: Kindle
This was a very captivating book once you got into it thoroughly. But the third person perspective was a bit hard to get used to. But as you got into it and followed the different characters, it was interesting and filled with intrigue, conflict and forbidden love.
I can’t wait to read the next one and to complete the series.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 12, 2022
★★★★★ 5
AMAZING debut novel!!!
Format: Kindle
Plot ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice 🌶️🌶️.5
Romance 💘💘💘
Vibes ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Dual 1st person POV - Ara (26) & Rogue (39 - but looks mid-20s: they can live hundreds of years so this isn't that large of a gap as it could've been which I heavily appreciate lol)
Tropes: enemies to lovers, fae/human wars (deep hatred for each other), shifters (dragons- MMC can only partial shift with wings), one horse, one bed, touch her and d!e, found family, abduction turned to freedom
The Last Storm is the debut novel from JD Linton and let me tell you, you guys NEED to read this. The plot was engaging and the editing was was amazing (especially for a debut novel). Our FMC, Ara, is stuck in her gilded cage longing for a life outside of her small town. She uses her books to escape and live vicariously through the pages (honestly, relatable). After her father announces her betrothal to her childhood friend (to whom she has no romantic feelings for), Ara tumbles unknowingly into a desperate plot trying to stop the humans from slaughtering the Fae.
As one can expect from an enemies to lovers / kidnapper/captive romance, Ara fights her attraction and lust towards our MMC, Rogue (the King of the Fae), for as long as she can. Upon seeing Ara for the first time, Rogue is instantly aware that she is his fated mate (not a spoiler). Since she is the General's only daughter, he plans to abduct her and use her as leverage to stop the brutality. During Ara's time in Rogue's captivity, their banter and chemistry continue to rise until they finally boil over and come together (quite literally, and many times I may add 😉).
Here's what I LOVED:
- Rogue continuously seeks advice from his elders and deeply respects their opinions and life experience and tries to implement their recommendations
- Rogue makes many mistakes in the beginning but we see him actively work on not repeating them as the book progresses. The level of self-awareness and his ability to change his behavior was impressive
- The magic system is intricate and we have only scraped the surface. As the series continues and Ara progresses in her powers, I'm sure we'll get to see more of this. I absolutely LOVE the messaging system that is used in this book.
- Ara's struggles are so human and so raw. She is experiencing so much guilt and pain and hurt and getting to see her work through each of these emotions is inspiring. Especially as her and Rogue get closer and she learns she can lean on him as well, that she is not alone.
- While this is the start of a series, there is NO cliffhanger! There's a bit of a teaser of something major that is going to happen at the start of the next book, but it's not a cliffhanger in the sense that we aren't sure if someone is going to live or d!e or if they'll be separated. For that, I am very thankful! This book was so much fun that I will definitely be returning to book 2, even if it takes several months (or longer since this is an debut author) to publish!
- Lastly, the cover is GORGEOUS! And I love the title!
I'll copy a few of my favorite quotes below so you can have a little taste of the author's writing and the world she's cultivated. 😊
Top Highlights from The Last Storm
On days like this, when my heart was heavy and my mind clouded, I resorted to books— to escape, to forget, to find freedom where I had none.
If I were to marry him, my face would always be turned to the window, searching for more, and if not that, I would be a shell of the person I am now.
I stepped back to admire her, thr0bbing at the sight. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. To ever exist. Nothing, no one, had ever deserved to be worshiped more. All men should be made to kneel before her. But she would have to settle for me.
The taste of her met my t0ngue as my scent merged with hers, forever branding her. Mine. I l!cked the wound. Hers. Completely and utterly hers.
I didn’t claim her in ownership. I claimed her as my one. Devoted myself to one. With that mark, my body and soul were bound to her. I would never be with anyone else, emotionally or physically. It would be her or no one, until my last breath.
“Scream my name. Let everyone know who I belong to.”
I had never really cared about the weather before, but now, clear skies meant everything to me, and I was grateful to see another calm morning.
“There will never be another woman for me.” He paused. “Ever.” I stilled at his words. “What… Why?” “This”— his thumb slid down across the mark—“ is a symbol of… surrender. I know you believe that it was my claim upon you, but it wasn’t. It never was. I bound my body and soul to you, little storm.”
“I also know that it is more than this tiny, insignificant mark on your skin that binds me to you. It’s you. All of you. Your strength and resilience. Your determination to endure no matter what fate throws at you. Your love for love and stories and hope. You are entirely the opposite of everything that I am and I would gladly wear your shackles if it meant I could have you.”
My mate. Mine. And then everything shifted and I understood. I understood everything. The surrender. The deep, soul-craving longing. Bound. I was bound to him. Body and soul. Entirely his. “I would’ve waited forever,” he whispered back, understanding.
Seriously, everyone.. add this to your TBR!!
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Reviewed in the United States on November 14, 2022
★★★★★ 4
A Decent Fae Romance
Format: Kindle
** 3.5 Stars rounded up to 4 **
First off I want to say that I found the author, J. D. Linton, on TikTok right before the release of the sequel. I bought the first 2 books to support her release, so congrats to her for the release of the sequel!
Overall, I liked the story & plot, I liked the characters, and I liked the spice. The downfalls: not enough development between the characters for the romance, and it leaned a little heavy into the tropes. A lot of stuff is told to you, which could have been used as devices to drive the plot and emotions of the characters.
🛑🛑 Mild Spoilers ahead, I tried to hide the obvious ones 🛑🛑
This is very obviously a fated mates, which is a trope I usually really enjoy. But I wish the relationship between Ara & Rogue had much more development before it's realized that they're mates, instead of Rogue knowing almost immediately and using it for nefarious purposes (at least in the beginning before they get to know each other). By revealing this within the first quarter of the book, I feel like it leaves less room for them to fall for each other organically (albeit with help from the mating bond) and they love each other because of the mating bond. I was disappointed as soon as Rogue know (literally only 5% in) and I literally made a note: "As much as II love a good mating trope, I wish we had to work for it a little more. Where's the fun in just telling us?" I believe that by holding out and feeding the reader snippets of a potential bond, it would've been more rewarding as a reader.
I also wish there was more world building - we are told of a war between human & fae but don't get to really experience any of it. Ara is sheltered in her human home, then sheltered in Rogue's castle. There's bits and pieces about what the war has done on either side - but we're more told of the aftermath and don't really experience any of it. Ara's father is supposed to be the king's #1 general - yet he is at home with his family & with Ara for the first couple chapters. Her, her family, nor her village seem to be affected by the 10 year war going on on their borders. I wish there was a little more setup to make this conflict - an actual war - feel more than a skirmish between fighting territories.
Linton could also be a little repetitive - with the biggest culprit being when Ara is upset she "brings [her] knees to [her] chest]" and either sits like that or cries. Every time she is upset this phrase is mentioned. I would get it if this was her crutch, or how she copes with grief and stress, but that should be explained why she does it so often or it becomes repetitive. I started to get annoyed with how often she would sit like this solely because it happens every couple chapters.
However, I did really like the spice. I love an enemies to lovers trope, especially when it results in spicy scenes. The spicy scenes weren't anything new, but they were fun. Wish there were more but that could also just be me - there is no such thing as too much spice 😂
Would I read again? Probably not, I'm super picky with rereads. Although I did genuinely enjoy my first read through!
Will I continue the series? Probably, at least for the sequel. As for #3, kind of depends on where I am with my TBR once that is released
All in all an enjoyable, fast paced read
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Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2024
★★★★★ 3
I love indie authors
Format: Kindle
Let me preface this by saying—writing a book is HARD! Coming up with characters so real that they take on a life of their own, building an entire world, the political/magic system. Designing all of this is no easy feat.
That being said.
This book had so. Much. Potential. I was so excited to read this book, and I plan to finish it for the sake of finishing it. But. At this point, I would have set I’d aside as a DNF. The book could have benefited from some form of a developmental editor, or an in depth beta reader. I will say this. Within 5 chapters, there are so many… phrases that I’ve highlight that I’ve latched onto. Phrases about books and storms that were written BEAUTIFULLY! So, bravo Linton for hitting the nail on the head as to why readers disappear like they do!
However, 5 chapters in and I can already guess where a majority of the story is going. But that’s also because I read like a mad-woman and have read this particular type of story, many different ways. Enemies to lovers where the FMC isn’t who she thinks she is. I am all about supporting indie authors. BUT. I also feel like criticism should be constructive, and not degrading. So if I could give this book a 4 1/2, strictly because I know the work the author put into this, I would. So if you’re looking for an easy read with characters that aren’t hard to follow, look no further! They are easy to love and easy to care for. One of the biggest issues they lacked, to me, was depth and plausible reactions to their situations. JD, you have done BEAUTIFULLY writing this book. I applaud and will continue to buy your books in the future. My BIGGEST recommendation is to definitely hire some form of an editor for any upcoming books. Or in turn, I will be happy to beta read for you. Should my opinion change of the book by the time I finish, I will happily get on here and say I was wrong, delete this review and post a different one. Until then…
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Reviewed in the United States on November 20, 2022
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